Comments on: No words http://luckydorito.com/no-words Tue, 22 May 2012 20:23:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Thotlady http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2106 Thotlady Tue, 02 Dec 2008 16:23:01 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2106 I know how you are feeling. I am traveling to Wisconsin after Christmas to see my family and I will visit my father's grave. He is actually above ground, so I guess it's a mausoleum. Anyway, it is difficult for me to visit him. I try not to think of him in that way...and seeing his name with the dates...even after five years is very, very difficult for me. I like to think he is still with me...I guess in his own way...he is. I know how you are feeling.

I am traveling to Wisconsin after Christmas to see my family and I will visit my father’s grave. He is actually above ground, so I guess it’s a mausoleum.

Anyway, it is difficult for me to visit him. I try not to think of him in that way…and seeing his name with the dates…even after five years is very, very difficult for me.

I like to think he is still with me…I guess in his own way…he is.

]]> By: Jean http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2096 Jean Tue, 02 Dec 2008 01:14:25 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2096 I'm sorry you have to feel bad.. but, til we will all be together forever, it's gonna be hard. Just remember you'll see him again one day, and hold on to that. I'm so blessed, and I don't take it for granted... {{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}} Jean I’m sorry you have to feel bad.. but, til we will all be together forever, it’s gonna be hard. Just remember you’ll see him again one day, and hold on to that. I’m so blessed, and I don’t take it for granted…
{{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}
Jean

]]> By: White Hot Magik http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2095 White Hot Magik Tue, 02 Dec 2008 00:20:44 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2095 Hey Lady, I think what you are feeling is normal. Feelings don't always make sense, it is when we let the balance get out of control that we have a problem. Once again I am sorry about the loss of your dad, hugs... Nora Hey Lady, I think what you are feeling is normal. Feelings don’t always make sense, it is when we let the balance get out of control that we have a problem. Once again I am sorry about the loss of your dad, hugs…

Nora

]]> By: BBB http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2094 BBB Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:08:15 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2094 You have been in my thoughts because I remember so well how I was feeling this time last year, with a loss so new at the holidays. No doubt about it, this is just a difficult time. Hold on to your loved ones through this season and remember the wonderful times you shared with your Daddy and you will make it through this. I send you a big, big hug sweet Dorie. You have been in my thoughts because I remember so well how I was feeling this time last year, with a loss so new at the holidays. No doubt about it, this is just a difficult time. Hold on to your loved ones through this season and remember the wonderful times you shared with your Daddy and you will make it through this. I send you a big, big hug sweet Dorie.

]]> By: meg http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2093 meg Mon, 01 Dec 2008 19:27:37 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2093 (((hugs))) (((hugs)))

]]> By: Linda http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2092 Linda Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:55:24 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2092 You're right. You are never prepared. We knew my Dad was going to pass away that day. He waited until we all left the room and then he died. I still have flashes of regret that I wasn't by his bedside. And guilt that I left the room. We were all out in the other room laughing about something. Can you imagine? What were we laughing about? I can't remember. One part of me says that Dad knew that since we were able to laugh we were all going to be okay and that's why he left then, the other part feels like we deserted him just when he was leaving us. You can't ever have a perfect death, I guess. You’re right. You are never prepared. We knew my Dad was going to pass away that day. He waited until we all left the room and then he died. I still have flashes of regret that I wasn’t by his bedside. And guilt that I left the room. We were all out in the other room laughing about something. Can you imagine? What were we laughing about? I can’t remember. One part of me says that Dad knew that since we were able to laugh we were all going to be okay and that’s why he left then, the other part feels like we deserted him just when he was leaving us. You can’t ever have a perfect death, I guess.

]]> By: Becca http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2091 Becca Mon, 01 Dec 2008 16:40:28 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2091 Anger and sadness are a natural part of the grieving process. I know that it is hard that your father passed so quickly, but even in your grief you write of all the fun, even quirky things you dad did during his lifetime. You are doing what is right for you in the given moment. None of us will even judge you for your feelings. Hugs and love you my friend, Becca Anger and sadness are a natural part of the grieving process. I know that it is hard that your father passed so quickly, but even in your grief you write of all the fun, even quirky things you dad did during his lifetime. You are doing what is right for you in the given moment. None of us will even judge you for your feelings.

Hugs and love you my friend,
Becca

]]> By: BEK http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2090 BEK Mon, 01 Dec 2008 15:54:38 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2090 May you find peace with the family that is still around you and supporting you. ditto Jen. Cross your arms around you and squeeze-there that's a hug from me to you. May you find peace with the family that is still around you and supporting you. ditto Jen. Cross your arms around you and squeeze-there that’s a hug from me to you.

]]> By: Guinie http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2088 Guinie Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:53:42 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2088 Wow. This post brought tears to my eyes. I remind myself everyday that I'm very blessed to have both of my parents here with us still. I don't talk to them as much as I should, but I don't take their time here for granted. And I always make sure to tell them I love them when I DO have a chance to talk to them. Wow. This post brought tears to my eyes. I remind myself everyday that I’m very blessed to have both of my parents here with us still. I don’t talk to them as much as I should, but I don’t take their time here for granted. And I always make sure to tell them I love them when I DO have a chance to talk to them.

]]> By: Jen http://luckydorito.com/no-words/comment-page-1#comment-2087 Jen Mon, 01 Dec 2008 13:53:05 +0000 http://luckydorito.com/?p=735#comment-2087 I don't have any good words. I am just sad that you are sad. (((((Dory))))) I don’t have any good words. I am just sad that you are sad.
(((((Dory)))))

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